What level of comfort do you prefer, that of a leader or a commoner?

Not for a distinction that serves superficially, the rewards should be more than that. More than winning the competition, it is what you can contribute to the good of as many people as possible. Only a few are willing to take the beatings, the cost of being a leader is excruciatingly demanding. The accolades and material gains will never be enough to compensate for the challenges of those who choose to be leaders.

Here are the things you might want to consider in making a difference. The choice is ours to make in this one life we have.

1. Vision vs. Routine

• Leader: Sees beyond the present moment. They anticipate what could be and set direction for others. Their decisions are often based on long-term outcomes rather than immediate comfort.

• Common people: Tend to focus on daily survival, tasks, or personal needs without necessarily considering broader impact or future consequences.

2. Responsibility vs. Comfort

• Leader: Embraces accountability for both success and failure. They stand at the front during crisis, taking responsibility for the group.

• Common people: Often prefer safety in numbers, following rather than bearing the weight of decisions. Responsibility can feel like a burden rather than a calling.

3. Influence vs. Compliance

• Leader: Naturally influences others, not just through authority, but through character, conviction, and example. Their words and actions shape the behavior of others.

• Common people: Often comply with rules or directions given, without necessarily shaping the environment themselves.

4. Purpose vs. Preference

• Leader: Operates from purpose—a cause greater than themselves. They endure discomfort, sacrifice, and risk to achieve something of lasting significance.

• Common people: Tend to act from personal preference, prioritizing what feels good or convenient.

5. Resilience vs. Reaction

• Leader: Responds thoughtfully under pressure. They absorb chaos and radiate stability. Their resilience inspires others.

• Common people: May react impulsively, letting circumstances dictate emotions and decisions.

6. Legacy vs. Lifestyle

• Leader: Is concerned with legacy—what will outlast them, what impact they will leave behind.

• Common people: Primarily focus on lifestyle—comfort, enjoyment, or getting through the day.

In essence, leaders rise above instinctual living to intentional living, while common people often stay within the boundaries of habit, survival, and self-interest. Both roles are important in society, but the difference lies in vision, responsibility, and influence.-Zandra, The Lady CEO